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After Florida School Shooting, Sheriff Tells Parents the Solution Has Nothing to Do With Guns

What happened to children respecting their parents and their peers?

What happened to children respecting their parents and their peers?

It seems respect for elders flew out the window a long time ago and really needs to be reintroduced into American society and our culture as a whole. A sheriff in Dodge County feels the same about children respecting their elders, especially in wake of the Florida Shooting. The Dodge County sheriff created a long statement pointing out the important points of what he feels will be the long-term solution to fixing all the school shootings and violence occurring in American society. And let me assure you it is not “gun control.”

Sheriff Dale Schmidt created a great argument stating new gun restrictions following the Parkland school shooting is not the “quick and easy fix” and will not solve the long-term problem at hand. Instead, Schmidt understands the solution starts at home with the parents with the proper type of discipline.

“Children need to cope and deal with conflict and disappointment,” said Schmidt. “I think that’s being lost by today’s students and without the parental guidance on how to cope with disappointment and conflict, they find their own ways to cope and that isn’t always healthy and that can be dangerous.” 

Parents need to spend more time in the lives of their children and teach them how to respect their elders, including law enforcement.

Reported by ijr:

Schmidt urged parents to raise their children to respect authority again, including parents, teachers and law enforcement. He also told parents not to be afraid to discipline their children.

“Discipline needs to be reintegrated into our society,” the sheriff said. “Parents, don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t or shouldn’t reasonably discipline your child in a non-abusive manner. Teachers need to have the support of parents when they make disciplinary decisions and parents need to resist the urge of running to the defense of their children when a teacher feels the need to discipline.”

In order to get the full context of the sheriff’s remarks, read his entire statement below:

“Following every mass killing, I ask myself, what has happened to our society? I also wonder what the solution is to ensure our families do not become future victims.

Many have pointed out that years ago, people would go to school and have hunting rifles in their vehicles.  Yet, mass violence in schools and other locations did not happen as in society today. It makes me think that there must be a root cause that we are not addressing that has led to this change.

So what has changed and more importantly how do we fix it? Media reports of school walk-outs and gun control discussions are becoming more prevalent than ever, all in an effort to find a quick and easy solution. I think it is safe to say that there is no quick and easy solution.

I think perhaps we are not evaluating the true root cause which is obviously very complex. We must make efforts to change our society as a whole. It’s my belief that the root cause starts with our youth lacking basic skills including respect for authority figures like parents and teachers, the ability to cope with conflict and the ability to handle rejection. Further issues like mental health and alcohol/drug use also play a role, but column length restrictions limit my ability to cover all aspects of the root cause today.

I believe it is imperative that we raise our children in a manner that instills respect for authority. While we all love our children, we need to get back to a society of parents who expect a level of respect toward both them and others in authority, including teachers.  Discipline needs to be reintegrated into our society.  Parents, don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t or shouldn’t reasonably discipline your child in a non-abusive manner. Teachers need to have the support of parents when they make disciplinary decisions and parents need to resist the urge of running to the defense of their children when a teacher feels the need to discipline. It undermines their authority and will likely be treated as an example for actions toward others in authority in the future.

What about inability to cope or handle rejection?  For years we have watched as competition has been replaced by participation awards that are given to make children feel good.  While no one wants their child to ever be disappointed or upset, when they are young, they need to face conflict and disappointment and learn to resolve it appropriately under the guidance of adults.  It is part of developing their personality and dealing with conflict in the future.  When youth are not taught how to handle difficult situations, they must find their own way to cope, which without guidance may be result in unhealthy or even dangerous future behavior.  I am no expert and am merely giving an opinion of what I have seen in my own experience, but I feel that my opinions have merit as I have witnessed people dealing with difficult situations at the worst times of their lives.

My point in writing this is not to place blame but rather to start conversations on what truly is the root cause of violence in society.  Many have strong opinions about gun control but realistically gun control will do nothing more than place a very small band aid on a much bigger problem. It is imperative that we have serious discussions on what we can do to change the norms of our society and positively impact the decisions our youth make.  It’s time to refocus our energy to affect long lasting change so that we can keep Dodge County a safe and enjoyable place to live, work and visit.

Sheriff Dale J. Schmidt”


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